Baby

Parenting Equipment Can Be Simplified (For Fathers Too!)
Dr. Sally Goldberg

Q. What baby equipment is important?

A. Not too much.

All baby and toddler equipment products are designed to make life as easy as possible for parents. That is the reason for using them, and that is a good reason. However, given that reason, it is important to understand that they are not necessarily designed to make life better for babies and young children. As a matter of fact, in many cases, the result is just the opposite.

Overuse of a bottle is a common problem. A bottle is meant to be a substitute for nursing, and nursing in most cases is recommended for more or less the first year. When weaning a baby from nursing or the bottle, the next step is a cup. It is to be used for milk (including rice and soy), water or freshly squeezed juice. Juices, unless they are freshly squeezed, should be diluted and kept to a minimum. Fresh fruits and vegetables are preferred.

There are many versions today of cups that have covers and spouts that range all the way from nipple look-alikes to straws. Unless your baby, toddler, or preschooler has a special reason why he/she cannot drink from a cup with your guidance, there is no need for the use of these sippie-type cups. They were designed to be used when an adult cannot give their child full attention. But those situations should be few and far between. These cups are definitely not meant to be substitute pacifiers.

The first year of life is filled with baby milestones. Enjoy each one with your baby. Sharing your joy with your baby will help him/her baby feel good about him/herself. The second year is when your toddler will be on the move, exploring and experiencing as much as possible. The third year is for transitioning to adult-like schedules that include eating regular meals and snacks, enjoying specific play/exercise routines, and having sleep schedules. Much time is needed to monitor children and to guide them in healthy living practices. Little equipment is required.

Sally Goldberg, Ph.D. is a Parent Coach. Learn more about handling children in the best ways possible on www.drsallyparenting.com, or contact Dr. Sally directly at drsally@drsallyparenting.com.