Baby

Out of the Stroller and on to the Couch… Oh No!
By Dr. Sally Goldberg

Q. Is there anything special to know about using strollers?

A. Yes, the rule of thumb is “Not too often” and “not for too long.”

The Umbrella Stroller

This original lightweight portable stroller was designed for a toddler. The idea was to be able to take your child, who could proudly walk from place to place for short distances, on longer outings.

The Sturdy Stroller

Soon all the soft flimsy stroller seats designed appropriately for short-term use turned into sturdy vehicles with strong back support designed for long term use. In time as these portable units totally lost their short-term purpose, they took on hoods, toy racks, diaper bags, plush seats and all kinds of carrying cases. With racks on the bottom to transport more items, and all kinds of position adjustments, these home-like substitutes could support a child’s living needs for hours at a time.

The Couch

Out of the stroller and on to the couch. Yes, now the same 2 or 3-year-old can easily watch TV, play DVD’s and spend hours at home with a computer. There are parents today that say, “My child developed so fast that he skipped crawling.” That is not the preferred situation. Beware of the parent who may soon say, “My child developed so fast he skipped hopping, skipping, and maybe even running.”

From Baby Carriage to Stroller

The very first strollers were designed so that baby or toddler could sit up in a stroller facing Mom. In that position, Mom could talk to her little one, share the joy of the sunshine and breeze, and point out the flowers and the trees. If baby faced the other way, the way they all do now, the major communication benefit of the walk would be gone.

Today, babies out for a walk are covered up by big carriage hoods, toys hanging from everywhere, and Mom totally out of sight. Sometimes a baby is even holding and feeding him/herself a bottle while on the move. It gets worse with Mom on her cell phone not paying attention.

What to Do

While you should enjoy whatever luxury stroller you have, you should still be sure to use hands-on, interactive communication whenever and wherever you can. Remember to make your own personal love and attention a major part of every day.

Sally Goldberg, Ph.D. is a Parent Coach. Visit her at www.drsallyparenting.com, or contact Dr. Sally directly at drsally@drsallyparenting.com.